I know a few people, both guys and girls, who parade the fact that they have multiple numbers of exes.
Some lines quoted from them:
'Weh, ex-ex-girlfriend (thats plural for ex-girlfriend) aku semua cun-cun belaka...' - Serial Dumpee #1, said in a very sleazy manner.
'To all my exes out there, please don't tell your current girlfriends who I am, because I don't want those b*tches knowing who they're receiving their hand-me-downs from...' - Serial Dumpee #2, said in a very b*tchy shoutout on friendster, next to a very slutty, cleavage-full shot of herself.
I find it hard to fathom why these two people are proud of having had a large number of exes. Perhaps they want to tell the world that they are desireable to more than just one person? The truth of the matter, dear Serial Dumpees, is that:
a) There is something seriously wrong with you, that you can't stay in a relationship for long before your partner bolts off for dear life, (for example, I can safely say that Serial Dumpee #1 is a complete sleaze bag, and no girl who prizes her dignity would want that; and Serial Dumpee #2 looks like she just ended her streetwalking shift, that no real good guy would walk with her without feeling embarassed for her) or;
b) You have no idea what the heck you want in a partner. All I can say here, then, is stop throwing yourself into relationships at the drop of a hat, start living life and stop looking for someone to attach yourself to.
I know a very sensible bloke who has regretted having a relationship with this one crazy girl, who he has now broken up with (thank God). He admits that when he had committed himself to her, he was 'very, very immature and stupid.' And now he's happily in a serious relationship to a girl he hopes to (and most likely will, I bet ya!) marry.
Therefore, stop entering the world of relationships just to add another ex onto your shelf of exes, because people who have good sense will not be impressed. They'll only believe that you're always 'very, very immature and stupid'.
5 hours ago
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Aisya, you are offensive :-P
And to be honest, Serial Dumpee #2 doesn't sound like she's proud of having so many exes. More like she just feels kind of sorry for the new girlfriend of the assholes she left.
And by writing "a)" it's like you're insulting all those people who have had a sucession of bad relationships. And that's a lot of people, okay?
It's better, actually, to be able to move on from a relationship once you realise it's getting sour, rather than stay with him for the sake of not wanting to have another ex to your list.
To any girls out there reading this, don't lose hope if you've only encountered assholes who dumped you for the first girl willing to give up her body. I choose to believe that there are nice guys out there in the world.
We just haven't found them yet =/
Yeah, I knew this was gonna across as offensive... Sebenarnya, kan, I was talking about those who are PROUD of the fact that they have so many exes.
Of course it's good to move on, but you don't move on to a rebound guy/girl, and you don't move into another relationship just to mess around. It's up to you, really, but will you truly be happy messing about all the time?
hahahaha..
pedasnye chili ni kadang2...
but the important thing is, ur not talking about me.. hopefully..
but this doesn't change the fact that serial dumpee, as you would presume, is all bad..
sometimes, people are very unlucky in love.. such as me.. hahahaha...
but, some are undoubtfully just being evil and dumping their currrent gf/bf for someone else just like that, for no apperrent reason..
and also, i admit that some just does all of this for the sake of fun.. which is very very wrong, people.... hehehehe... n no shurfa, i'm not grinning.. hehehehe...
Whatever makes you think I'm talking about you, Ezuan? I've never heard you say anything like that about your exes, have I?
No, I don't assume the serial dumpees are all bad... I'm just annoyed at the people who seem to be proud that they've got so many exes, like they're trophies of magnificent conquests or something...
*halo*
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